Chemistry is one of the most overrated currencies in modern dating. Chemistry tells you that two people can ignite. It tells you nothing about whether they’ll stay lit. I’ve learned that consistency is far less exciting in the beginning, but infinitely more valuable in the end.
The person who deserves my trust won’t make me wonder why yesterday felt so real and today feels like I imagined the whole thing. They won’t make me replay every interaction, searching for the exact moment everything changed. Because love shouldn’t feel like solving a mystery.
I’ve realized that being intensely wanted for a moment isn’t the same as being genuinely chosen.”
One creates adrenaline. The other creates safety. These days, I’m paying attention to the ones who keep showing up.
Consistency is love.
~ Karny